Philly,DC,NYC and/or Portland?

This is the dilema do I do Philly(ticket booked) and/or DC(tix on sale next Thurs) and/or NYC (sold out but hoepfull to pick one up from somewhere). Or PORTLAND last show/hometown gig, jeez that'll be an emotional one.
I've come to terms with the fact that the ladies will be no more. It's the emotional outpouring on the board that's tuff to handle. The people there are just so nice, there's a real scense of community. I feel like I know them all personally, the love is not just for Carrie,Corin and Janet but for each other. I'm finding that difficult to handle.
Anyway (wipes away tear) I'm going to have to seriously think about which shows to attend.